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Tricks to build an effective Vision Board

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vision board is a tool used to help clarify, concentrate and maintain focus on a specific life goal. Literally, a vision board is any sort of board on which you display images that represent whatever you want to be, do or have in your life.

What is the point? Simply put, we humans tend to be a very busy species and constantly bombarded by distractions. Making use of vision boards serves several purposes, some of which include helping you to:

  • Identify your vision and give it clarity.
  • Reinforce your daily affirmations.
  • Keep your attention on your intentions.

The purpose of a vision board is to be a visual representation of what you are creating in your life. Research has shown that if you can see an outcome clearly, you are much more likely to achieve it. In addition, many spiritual practices believe that if you look at your vision and bring up the emotions and feelings associated with having already achieved it, especially gratitude, then you activate the universal Law of Attraction and can essentially call that vision into your life.

Personally, I have found vision boards to be very powerful. They have worked 100% of the time in my life – I used vision boards (in combination with intention and prayer) to manifest my dream home, my perfect soul mate, my education and my career. I tend to save them for “big” things but I have many friends who use them for everything and are regularly working on their boards.

CREATE YOUR OWN VISION BOARD:

Step 1: Get a piece of paper and write down what you want. Hand write specific goals that you envision for your career, love life, marriage, school, health and wealth – all aspects of your life.

Step 2: Prepare all the materials you need to make your Vision Board/s. Scissors, magazines, photos, glue, cork/card board or what ever you want to use as a surface.  Remember, you can use the internet to find pictures to print and use.

Step 3: Paste/pin all the pictures, sayings, quotes, or what ever you have prepared. Put them in order of importance, or any other way you want to see them on your board. At the center you might even place a picture of yourself with a big smile so you will remember to smile when you see your board. Remember that you are not just putting up pictures, you are finding ways to create a different emotional state!

Step 4: Place your board/s in places that you will be able to see them everyday. Give yourself at least a minute (five minutes is better) each day to look at your board and find your attitude of gratitude. Imagine you have already acquired everything on your board. Close your eyes and visualize yourself clearly as the happy, grateful person that you want to be.

 

At HappyMinds Leadership Academy last weekend Smart Leaders made their very own vision board. Their creation depicted very clear picture of how to want their life to be. They covered every aspect of life from Work to Education to Personal life. No doubt they have a very bright future as they express Gratitude, Visualize and Focus for success.

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THE POWER OF GRATITUDE:

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Ways to develop an Attitude of Gratitude:

‘Gratitude’ simply means the quality of being Thankful. As I write this I feel nothing but Calm, Happy and Peaceful. You are probably thinking why? Well it’s because I am grateful for all the beautiful things in life.

Since many years researchers in the field of positive psychology have been studying the effect of gratitude on health and well being. They describe Gratitude as personality strength – the ability to be keenly aware of the good things that happen to you and never take them for granted. Grateful people express their thanks & appreciation to others in a heartfelt way, not just to be polite. If you possess a high level of Gratitude, you often feel an emotional sense of wonder, thankfulness & appreciation for life itself. Individuals who exhibit & express Gratitude are happier, healthier and more energetic. The more a person is inclined towards Gratitude the less lonely, anxious and depressed he or she will be.

It appears that counting our blessings on a regular basis can improve our moods & overall level of Happiness & health but at the same time expressing that appreciation to others will do even more. Noticing, appreciating and expressing our feelings for life’s little blessings can produce unimaginable benefits.

So, it certainly seems that developing a higher level of Gratitude is emotionally, physically & mentally rewarding. Question is, how do you increase your feelings of Gratitude when nothing seems to be going right or life presents great challenges?  It easier said than done. But wait, it is actually possible to express Gratitude when you are not feeling you have anything to be grateful for.  Although we acknowledge Gratitude’s benefits, it can still feel difficult to feel Gratitude. That’s why it makes sense to practice Gratitude in good and the bad times. It is Human nature to notice all  the wrong things, but if we give ourselves the chance on a regular basis to notice all of lives gifts & blessings we can increase our sense of well-being & create hope and Optimism for the future – no matter what is going on.

Here are some ways to start Practicing Gratitude to improve your well-being:

1)      KEEP A GRATITUDE JOURNAL: 

Keeping a gratitude journal and noting down five things you are grateful for everyday will help you focus on the little good things that happen to you daily. Gradually, it will eliminate the negativity and generate a feeling of Gratitude.

 

2)      EXPRESS YOUR GRATITUDE:

Appreciating people around you helps build relationships. It helps spreading Happiness and attracting great things. Express gratitude and sense the change emotionally, physically & mentally.

 

3)      LOOK FOR WHAT IS RIGHT ABOUT A SITUATION, NOT WHAT’S WORNG:

Every situation or action will have something right and something wrong. Analyzing the right and the wrong we judge the situation. In this process focus more on the good and eliminate the wrong. Notice and appreciate all the good things in a wrong situation.

 

4)      PRACTICE GRATITUDE WITH YOUR FAMILY & FRIENDS:

Practicing this concept on daily basis will help you master it. Your friends and family are the people you spend most of the time with. You experience number of feelings around them. Practicing gratitude with them will help you in the best way.

 

HappyMinds Leadership Academy Session:

We instill these skills in children of HappyMinds Leadership Academy as we understand the development process they go through. This week we conducted a session on Gratitude where in Smart Scholars made a Gratitude Garland mentioning five things they are Grateful for in their life. We also discussed with them 21 acts of Kindness and their benefits. These acts were discussed keeping in mind the situations they are generally in. It is fascinating how they understand Gratitude, Kindness and Respect but forget it in the process of growing up.

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Youth today is the driving force of tomorrow

 

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As rightly quoted, “Today’s youth is the future of tomorrow.” Our government and society is continuously evolving with more and more western style of education and culture. The youth is exposed to this more due to technology and globalization. People generally say that it is a bad influence on our culture, but is it so?  The youth of today are a crucial segment of society. They are the social actors of change and can serve as a pressure group to governments in defining their priorities. They are not only the leaders of tomorrow, but the partners of today. The generation today is fast paced and the youth is curious to gain knowledge, experiment and bring change. Change is constant in today’s generation and the youth of today embrace it and run with it.

 

How can we Empower Youth?

 

Youth are independent. They like their freedom and want to explore and experiment. An amalgamation of traditional ideas, modern ideas and technology, they have unlimited potential.  Some people might be of the opinion that how can we put our future in the hands of teens, whose ideas span from simple to complex. The answer is simple – we simply let them “do”. We let them dream, think, explore and fulfill. We give our youth the tools to Collaborate and Problem solve, Brainstorm and Reflect. We empower them to believe that their voice matters without judging and criticizing them.

 

Youth of today want to serve the society. They want to give, participate and have an impact, what they need is support and faith in them. Many students of B-schools and  IIT study hard and graduate but instead of taking up the high paying corporate jobs they decide to do something different. They develop a new concept and serve people and the society. Sometimes these ideas and concepts are well received while other time they fall flat but they being the change agents do not stop trying. What I am saying here is, youth will learn by their own experience. Being the change agents they should know that not everyone will listen to them every time. Learning is a process and it takes practice to realize that even a great idea needs proper planning to attain the best results.

 

Thus, to Empower the them parents and teachers should believe in the youth. They should help them develop positive habits necessary to sustain and grow to make this world a better place to live. Just believe in them and let them explore, plan, prepare and experiment. Motivate them to be the change they wish to see in this world. Let them be Independent and empower them.

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“Sherlock Calling!!!”

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Wondering what is Sherlock Calling!! Well it’s the most thrilling and adventurous detective day celebration at HappyMinds Leadership Academy. Now, there are certain characteristics  detectives  possess which require years of practice and development. Not only is their work adventurous, it is very dangerous at times. We thought why not the kids of our academy have hands on experience  assisting Sherlock Holmes and help him solve the great mystery of hidden treasure.

Children of all age have always been thrilled to be detectives, watch spy cartoons or read stories of Tin tin, Sherlock Holmes or Nancy Drew to name a few. Every kid loves to solve mysteries, crack codes and uncover secret messages. So we polished our magnifying glasses and took them to the adventurous land of detectives and criminals. To get the real feel all the Boys and Girls were dressed as detectives.

Geared up to take the challenges ahead of them, the kids were confident and showcased excellent enthusiasm. At the start of the session we introduced children to the work of a detective and explained them about their working styles and characteristics. They were also introduced to a few words like forensics and evidence to give them a further insight. They learnt about crime scenes and fingerprints and the importance of wearing gloves while collecting evidence. After the briefing they were given various challenges such as Arithmagon, Decoding a message, Puzzles and word scrambles that lead them to the final clue. The final clue was a secret message for them from Sherlock Holmes. It can’t be expressed what we witnessed during the session. The smartness, the techniques and the accuracy they solved mysteries with was impressive.

We designed this session to develop certain skills in children which a detective possesses like Creative thinking, Observational Skills, Concentration skills, Problem Solving techniques and Under-stress working. We are happy to have been able to make the kids understand all this with the help of the activities performed in this session. The efforts put together in designing and conducting the session by Team HappyMinds was appreciated by students as well as parents.

Session on Grasping Power and Presentation Skills

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HappyMinds Leadership Academy session on Grasping Power and Presentation Skills:

 

This week we celebrated “Friendships Day” at HappyMinds Leadership Academy with our students. We explained Smart Leaders and Smart Scholars the importance of Friendship. We exchanged friendships bands with each other and then read a Story with a strong morale of Friendship.

 

After the celebration Smart Scholars started the session with 15 minutes meditation to develop focus. Every student prepared a story and presented it with Introduction and Voice Modulation. It was truly spectacular watching kids of 5-10 years age perform the story effectively and ending it by explaining the morale. We also taught kids widely used proverbs with help of a video. They were thrilled to use it now in their daily conversation. We added a fun factor and gave the children a few tongue twisters to practice. They were then asked to say the tongue twisters for number of times.

 

The Smart Leaders learnt the importance of Spoken English. They learnt how to reduce  errors while speaking and writing English by practicing Reading, Vocabulary, and Writing regularly. Then they discussed a few current affairs by putting up their points of a given issue for discussion. We also conducted a Group Discussion on the topic “Friends-Lifeline of humans”. Couple of videos were then shown during the session on the facts of today’s era and Sherlock holmes to test children’s observational skills.

 

Finally, a feedback was given to children by their trainers on public speaking skills.

5 kinds of Friends we all have.

 

 

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So, it’s the Friendship week. The world is celebrating this relation with a happy spirit. Why not, after all it’s “Friendship”. It is correctly said that Friends are relatives selected by one’s own will. They are most important people in anyone’s life because they understand your thoughts, tantrums and situations. They are with you in the good and the bad times. It is miraculous how we develop this relation called “FRIENDSHIP” with a person of different personality than us and like all the imperfections in them.

Friendship according to me is a bond of unconditional love developed between two people effortlessly. We become friends with like-minded people and share with them our joys, sorrows, memories and time. But in the process of life, not all friends last forever. We make new friends, we forget a few and we are consistent with others. What is most important is the essence of this relation and not the span. The memories that we make with one can never be compared to any other instance from our life. Every friend is unique in himself.

Generally, everyone will have these five kinds of friends:

1)       The Comedian:

I was recently having a problem being accepted in my new family after marriage and this one friend of mine helped me cop up with the situation in a humorous way. This friend with great sense of humor made my problem seemed so easy and I was able to cope up fast. Such friends have an ability to make us laugh and get through any problem smoothly. The seriousness of dealing with the problem converts into fun.

2)       The Life Coach:

Because of the busy lives that we live into, we spare less time to speak to our closest friends. But it doesn’t really matter. When we d connect, this kind of friend reinvigorates you. He will give you all the positive energy and make you feel much more confident about yourself and your future. Through his examples he will make you more eager to set goals and achieve them.

3)       The Risk Taker:

We all have or should have this one adventurous friend who takes us out of the status quo- someone who introduces us to new concepts, ideas and activities we might not have otherwise been exposed to or feared to explore on our own. I am an adventurous person myself and I have inspired many to try something fun and challenging. I have encouraged them to push their limits and not get intimidated of doing something they fear. And I can bet it is a lifetime experience.

4)       The Challenger:

One characteristic we underrate in a friend is the ability to be a revolution. The Challengers are those who take up a cause and focus on bringing up a change and transform lives. We all have this one friend who is sensitive to world’s persistent problems and makes an effort and accomplish a cause.

5)       The Loyalist:

Everyone needs a friends who does not judge you if you are in a complete mess. They are just there for you whatever may come. You can be at your worst or your best in front of them and BEWARE you can never fake a smile before them; they will recognize the sadness behind the smile. They let you get emotional when you’re at your low point and really listen to you without a question. We all have a friend who hangs in there even when we’re not at our best.

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Positive Parenting

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Dealing with children in this fast paced life can take toll on you. But, as parents we have opened our hearts to our children. We bring them to life and want to give them the best of everything. But are we coming out really strong on them in the process to give them the best? Today, children are exposed to information from all around the globe from various sources (Thanks, to Technology). They have become tech savvy, but in this race towards success and cut-throat competition they have lost the essence of being a child. If the child is not good at studies, parents force him to study hard, if he still cannot keep up he is an average kid or lazy and is given many other moniker.

We, being parents, possess a tremendous power to make a child’s life miserable or joyous. We can be a tool of torture or an instrument of inspiration. We can humiliate or humor, hurt or heal. Positive parenting raises a child who WANTS to behave.

Strict Parenting raises angry kids who lose interest in pleasing their parents.

Permissive Parenting raises unhappy kids who test their parents.

In both cases, the child resists the parent’s guidance and does not learn self-discipline.

Positive parenting, sometimes called gentle or loving guidance is simply guidance that keeps our kids on the right path, offered in a positive way that resists any temptation to be punitive. Children misbehave when they feel discouraged and powerless. When you use discipline methods that overpower them or make them feel bad about themselves, you lower their self-esteem. Most parents think punishment will install discipline but they are only installing Fear. Physical force teaches children all the wrong lessons. Parents assume discipline means some sort of punishment, because our culture’s view of human nature assumes that humans must be punished so they will learn not to repeat the mistake. The ultimate goal of learning is self-discipline, so that mistakes are not repeated.

So what helps kids stop themselves from acting in ways they know they shouldn’t. What gets them to start desirable behavior, and keep doing it?

Here are six tips for Positive Parenting:

  1. Appreciate the value of  play:

           Play is critical to all aspects of child development but is often overlooked. Play can prevent discipline problems and offer a      natural way for children to learn.

  1. Talk with and listen to your child.

            It is important to make eye contact and use gentle touch when communicating with your child. Remember the importance of non-verbal communication.

  1. Build your child’s brain and body.

            Provide healthful meals and snacks and model good eating habit. Encourage exercise by being active with your child.

  1. Be your child’s first source of information.

            Encourage you children to ask questions. By answering questions from your child with honesty and openness you can create a relationship of mutual trust and respect.

  1. Learn how children develop and know your unique child.

           When it comes to your child, the real expert is you. Know all areas of your child’s development – physical, intellectual, social, emotional and moral.

  1. Cherish you child’s individuality.

            Support your child’s interests and talents. Try to spend time alone with each of your children every day. Praise your children’s differences and avoid comparing them.

“Children have more needs of models then of critics.” – Carolyn Coats

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HappyMinds Leadership Academy Session on developing Listening Skills.

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This week the sessions at HappyMinds Leadership Academy focused on developing Good Communication Skills in Scholars and Leaders. We decided to do Speaking and Listening Skills which is an integral part of any Communication.

For Scholars we began the session explaining them the importance of communication and its process. This was explained by narrating stories. They learnt to narrate stories effectively by giving an Introduction of Characters, incorporating voice modulation and practicing the tone. We also played videos targeted to develop their Listening skills. Doing varied activities with kids has always been our keen interest. Thus, we designed various activities to help children understand why is listening so important for good communication.

For Leaders we began with an Introduction of the idea of sharing important current affair news in the beginning of each session. Leaders were asked to make a secret note to share their problems. For the activity we divided the students in different Political parties and asked them to prepare a campaign for their party to promote for elections. They were given a brief on the Lok-Sabha election process. Apart from knowledge about elections, these sessions help children learn Teamwork skills such as listening, sharing, participating, taking ownership and being responsible.

We feel Joyous when children participate and perform these activities with interest and develop these skills with practice.

Good Communication Starts with Listening

Ever thought what is Listening and why is it so Important?

 

Listening is the ability to accurately receive and interpret messages in the communication process. Listening is an important key to all effective communication. Without the ability to listen, effective messages are easily misunderstood – communication breaks down and the sender of the message can easily become frustrated or irritated.

Richard Branson frequently quotes Listening as one of the main factors behind the success of Virgin. Not only Richard Branson, but most of the Leaders and entrepreneurs of the world credit their success to Listening skills. Communication is a two way process: One is a Listener and other is a Speaker. If any one of the either communicator fails to communicate effectively than the message is not conveyed properly and is easily misunderstood. Understanding how to practice good communication even in your day to day life, among friends, family, and significant others, is important for a number of reasons: fostering good self-esteem, maximizing productivity, improving relationships, and even becoming a better speaker. It’s easy to mistake listening as a simple, passive task, but it requires more than just the ability to absorb information from someone else. Listening is a process, and an active one.

Generally, Listening is mistaken as Hearing. Let me tell you, Listening and Hearing are two very different concepts. Hearing refers to the sounds that you hear, whereas listening requires more than that: it requires FOCUS. Listening means playing attention not only to the story, but how it is told, the use of language and voice, and how the other person uses his or her body. In other words, it means being aware of both verbal and non-verbal messages. Your ability to listen effectively depends on the degree to which you perceive and understand these messages

TO DEVELOP GOOD LISTENING SKILLS PRACTICE LARSEN:

A Good Listener:

Looks at speakers:

Establishing eye contact with the speaker is important. In any communication, when a Listener makes an Eye contact with the Speaker it means that he is ready to listen with full attention.

Asks questions when necessary:

Asking questions reassures the speaker of the listener’s genuine interest on the subject and his attempt to understand what speaker is saying. It also acts as a clarification to ensure that the listener understands of what the speaker is saying is correct.

Responds regularly & frequently:

Listener should respond frequently during the conversation so that the speaker understands that the message is effectively communicated. Your facial expressions reflect your interest, so Non-verbal communication is useful to respond frequently during the conversation.

Stays on subject:

When asking questions to speaker during a conversation, stay on the subject and don’t change the direction of the conversation. Try to be on the same page with the speaker.

 Emotions under control:

Try to be impartial.  Don’t become irritated and don’t let the person’s habits or mannerisms distract you from what they are really saying.  Everybody has a different way of speaking.

Never interrupts:

Relax. Focus on the Speaker. Never interrupt a speaker when he is speaking. Wait for him to complete or pause and then put forth your view.

 

“The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen.  Just listen.  Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention.

–           Rachel Naomi Remen

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WHY TO BECOME A LIFE LONG LEARNER?

 

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A Human Wellness is measured not only from outside but also from within. Wellness is a full integration of States of Physical, Mental & Spiritual well being. There are seven dimensions that act and interact in a way that contributes to our own quality of life:  Social, Emotional, Spiritual, Environmental, Occupational, Intellectual and Physical wellness. To improve our quality of life, we need to understand the importance of lifelong learning. But are we aware of it? Are we giving enough time to learn and improve  quality of our thoughts and skills?

Humans are born learners.  We spend 20 good years educating at school, college, university etc. Generally speaking it is true that a formal education and the resulting qualifications are important. But knowledge can be acquired and skill-sets developed anywhere and at any age –learning is unavoidable and happens all the time. Lifelong learning is about creating and maintaining a positive attitude to learning both for personal and professional development. Lifelong learners are the people who are motivated to learn and develop because they want to: it is a deliberate and voluntary act. Lifelong learning can enhance our understanding of the world and provide us with more and better opportunities and improve our quality of life.

There are two main aspects of a person’s development: Personal development and Professional development. These two aspects may not necessarily be distinct as personal development can improve your employment opportunities and professional development enables personal growth.

Learning for its own sake brings its own advantages. For example, learning in whatever context:

–           Boosts  confidence and self-esteem

–           Makes you Interesting and Charismatic

–           Makes you Independent and handy

–           Makes us less risk averse and more adaptable to change when it happens

–           Keeps your brain healthy

–           Helps us achieve a more satisfying personal life

–           Challenges our ideas and beliefs

–           Is fun

There does not need to be a specific reason for learning since learning for the sake of learning can in itself be a rewarding experience.  We live in the Knowledge Age, which means that the ability to apply the right knowledge effectively is an important skill and the cornerstone of our success. If you ever doubt the strength of knowledge and learning, just ask someone who hasn’t used a computer in 10 years to find an article on the Internet.

Learning makes us more interesting. Knowledge enables a different perspective, fascinating conversation and a deeper understanding. It makes us better people; allows us to make better informed decisions; and assists us in becoming more successful in all aspects of life. The advancement of technology has boosted the pace of our lives, and requires us to learn something new each day just to stay current.

The lack of knowledge prevents personal and professional growth, so it’s important to commit to lifelong learning as a practice for   eternal self-improvement. It is important for our wellness to be aware of our own self and to work each day towards perfection.

“Develop a passion for learning. If you do, you will never cease to grow.” – Anthony D’Angelo

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